Anger at being ripped off – EFT provides a calm plan

I have been ripped off by supplier (on the day I found out for sure, I got an email from a well-wisher innocently saying “Welcome to Cape Town”. That really encapsulates it all, as i am not used to being ripped off in this way in London, where I come from, so it was a kind of culture shock.

The rip-off merchant got me and my partner in this venture to open and run company at a cost we could not afford, lying that this was part of the process we needed to go through before we got our dream, our non-profit charity to help people. How heartless of that person, and now we are lumbered with an additional bill to close down this company and do a tax return at another huge cost, for no reason. I won’t say more here in case of libel charges, but basically, my head is throbbing, I want to kill someone, and I need to work more, harder, etc, in order to pay off this extra bill.

Tapping something like: “Even though I’m mad…”
“Even though … lied to us…”

Result: Now I am starting to calm down. From a 10 to an 8.

Tapping something like: “Even though this is costing way more than we can pay right now….”
“Even though we’ve been ripped off…”
“Even though now I have to find more money very quickly…”

Result: Now it’s down to a 6 out of 10.

I remember that I will be changing this supplier, but sadly, there is a large bill we were not expecting that has to be paid, and we still have to pay the real non-profit start-up costs, finally, from a genuine person with a conscience and professional pride.

Tapping: “Even though this has been a costly lesson, there is nothing I can do about the past except learn from it, I’ve learned my lesson and now I move on”.

Result: It is down to 1 out of 10, as it genuinely is a large financial burden from which I will have to somehow recover, so I don’t think it can go down further for now. However, I do have a clear plan of action.

If it wasn’t for EFT, I honestly would have ended up with massive pain in my shoulders, plus I would have compulsively spent money on retail therapy and also eaten compulsively to self-soothe. This is a very big issue, and I feel calm about it now. I did give the person a peace of my mind earlier, though reasonably calmly, and I had put the phone down when they tried to accuse me of not understanding, when they had lied over the phone yet again.OK –

Tapping something like: “Even though that f….ng ….. ………. …… f……ng lied to me, that f…ing lying scheming conniving f….ng lying f….ng b…ch!!!!!!!!!!”…

Result: Oh well, she’s a truly unhappy person anyway, and I don’t need to waste my energy on losers like her. She’s even less than a loser -oh I can’t be bothered with this anymore!

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