I woke up this morning feeling a zero out of ten for yesterday’s insults. However, I want to check in on the event, to make sure there is none left, as I want my energy to be clear of yesterday’s insults, so I can continue to move forward and do well with ease
.The whole thing started when I responded to some sales enquiries about EFT course training in Cape Town. One response came back with a series of disrespectful, racist, and classist insults, after which I did the previous tapping on this blog. As a professional EFT Practitioner and Trainer in Cape Town and on Skype, with several appointments booked for today and training booked for tomorrow, I need to ensure that my energy is clean first. When you are an EFT Practitioner or an EFT Trainer, it is essential that your energy is as clear as possible before going into an appointment or workshop.And so, I will now read the insults sent to me to see if anything registers…
As soon as I look at it, I get a 3 out of 10.
So I tap on the CollarBone continuously as I read this diatribe…It is now lower, but the clear message in my head is “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer”. The fact that I have to endure this disrespectful nasty liar and pretend to like them is very hard. I want to cut off all links to them, but I am not at a stage where I can do so. They even stole from me once before. And their diatribe contradicts itself. In one paragraph it tells me off like a bad girl for doing something that this person professes never to do, and a few paragraphs down, it gives two instances where this person is currently doing just that. I have no choice at the moment but to keep this enemy very close to me. But what I really want to say to them is “%&^*&%&*% off and never even think of talking to me ever again”, but in this job,. like any other, there are ar**holes, and you have to find a way to manage them, smile at them and let it go.
Setup“Even though … is a two-faced liar and thief, I deeply love and accept myself”
Reminder“2-Faced liar and thief”
Result: Now, clear-headed, I can see where I went wrong in my response to that person’s sales enquiry. I did a complete no-no in terms of client-therapist boundaries (even though I am not this person’s therapist). I gave examples from my own life. OK, so they are examples that are not in any way personal, they were just part of a sales message, but I can see how that person saw it as me airing what they thought was my personal problems. And because I inadvertently crossed the client-therapist boundary, they felt it was OK to cross it back and send me all those insults. Now, I re-read the whole thing, and although this person blatantly lies in every single paragraph, it does not bother me. I see it it entirely as my error in judgement. I said something which on reflection, was perceived as personal information about me, and I should never have said that. I had used training from other marketers, who use a bad personal experience from the past and then tell you how far they have moved on, thereby encouraging you to do it their way, which has been proven to work. I did the first part right, but I did not do the second part well, so it came across as me laying out what could be seen as a personal weakness. This was not at all the intended message, and I should not have written that sales message on what was supposed to be a day off. I should have just ignored my emails and gone to the gym and had a great day relaxing and recharging. I finally feel at total peace. I feel in control of the situation. And I have a re-learned an important lesson in handling challenging clients. And it makes me an even better EFT Trainer in Cape Town, my new city, to which I have moved for love and marriage. I forgive myself and move on. And I certainly forgive the perpetrator.
When you have a chronic physical condition, anything that either emotionally or physically has a negative impact on you can make the condition worse. EFT is one way of throwing away the emotional rubbish collecting in your system. In the same way that we dispose of our household rubbish regularly for home cleanliness and hygiene, I use EFT to dispose of negative emotions for my optimal physical health. I call an emotion anything that your mind or body says to you, from fear to constricted airways. My health was not always as good as this. Please go back to around 2005 on this blog to get to the worst postings (when I was often bed-ridden, unable to breathe enough to get out of bed), if you are looking for how to tap for those really bad days of health. Disclaimer – You are advised to consult with your medical practitioner before embarking on any course of alternative, complementary, or beauty therapy. Our use of systems that are trademarked or have a registered trademark represents our views and not necessarily those of the trademark owners.Like my Facebook page for freebies and offers